WHEN

• you help someone, don't expect anything in return
• you are open, describing your daily activities, sharing your dreams & thoughts; don't expect the other party to do the same in return
• you prioritise a person, don't expect to be on top of their priority list
• you are faced with a black face, just take it that the other party is having a bad day
• you are given an annoying respond, just assume the other party is just not in the mood to talk
• in doubt, always wear black ;)

trust me, your life is a lot simpler and joyful ...