Passing Judgement

last night in between watching the movie we talked about other movies - which one is funny, which one we like the most etc. r asked if i've watched big momma 2. i said no. she said at first she didn't have the intention on watching it but because she had nothing else to do at home she ended up watching it on cable. she told me the reason she had no interest watching it, which is actually same as mine. we just don't appreciate the jokes and actors which are well, black. but she had great time and laugh watching it. after which she said to herself that its always not fair to judge something based on the first impression. if she didn't be open minded and watch it despite her first impression on black comedy, she wouldn't have a good laugh. and that applies in life as well.

first impression tends to make people decide on the next step when we're not supposed to do that. first encounter might not bring the best out of a person, hence the need of 2nd and 3rd or maybe even 4th before judging the person.

i have to agree with her but sometimes some people are just too shallow to wait even for the 2nd encounter before passing judgement. including myself...