last friday, I met soo many selfish people here - how I noticed? 'cos I'm d victim - sort of.

I was going for a detox program during the weekend, so I bought a lot of fruits on friday - afraid of starving I kinda bought more than I need. It was very heavy but since I'm planning to start saving more, I decided to take the train home instead of taxi.

Selfish act 1.
Left office 15 mins earlier to attend bodybalance. On my way to the lift I saw a lady going in so I was relieved 'cos she's gonna open the door and I can save some energy pushing the heavy door. I assume seeing how heavy the bag I was carrying, she would be kind and hold the door 'til Im out - like what I WOULD DO if I were in her place.
Surprisingly, oh sweet lazy skinny lady, she just stared at me with an ugly face. Apparently she's waiting for ME to open the door so that she can squeeze in. I looked her in the eyes, hell - I know this lady, and she just kept smiling at me and really squeeze in when I open the door. She had the decency of looking into my carrier.

Selfish act 2.
After my gym, I went home taking the train. It was my upper body training and my shoulders are killing me like hell, but still determined to be more cost-savvy I took the train home. Train was crowded as usual so I simply stand with the bags (gym bag and fruits bag) between my legs.
Once the train reached city hall (or is it bugis??), these 2 guys in front of me stood up. I was happy that I'd get a seat and before I even knew it, this couple from out of nowhere rushed to those seats. I was amazed and people ard me looked at me and we simply exchanged a knowing smile. The couple pretended nothing happen, though I noticed the guy looked at me and my carrier. I was soooo angry that I looked at him for the rest of the journey. Yes, Im not that tired that I need to sit desperately. But I was just so pissed of with how some people behave. I knew that he knew that I was looking straight at him that he barely looked anywhere else apart from his wife's mobile and the floor.

What is so difficult in giving up ur seat for those who needs it more than you do.
What if I fainted in the mrt - it happened before anyway - won't the guy feel guilty of stealing my seat?
I know I would...

It occurs to me that this couple may not be a local - hence, they have no idea what courtesy means.
It also shows that all the debates in the paper abt should people give up their seats for the elderly or pregnant lady in public transportation show how human can be so ignorant.

Can't they just imagine what if the person in need is their family members, their friends, or maybe themself in the future?
A friend of mine used to forbid her hubby from giving up seat for some pregnant lady by pretending to sleep.
When she's pregnant, she complained nobody wants to give up their seat for her - karma lady! thats what we told her...

I just simply can't understand these people.

Last saturday, on my way to city after the gym - I was so tired after attending bodycombat while on detox - that I saw an old lady entered the train from city hall. I ignored and get back to sleep, but I felt bad knowing that an old lady was standing while me, young (compared to her at least) and healthy, was sitting comfortably.
I gave up the seat for her and she smiled saying thank you to me.
I know its a small gestures but I believe she appreciated it a lot - I know I WANT people to do the same if that old lady happens to be my mom.

I simply simply can't understand how people can be so selfish.
I have to say though, back home - people in my country is not as selfish as people are here.
I guess cultures play a big role - I'd rather me unselfish than prosper but selfish.
come to think abt it - I'd rather be rich and unselfish :)